Dating love married
When I was in college I yearned for a relationship with a woman.But I remember when I heard someone talk about how husbands sacrifice their wants and desires for the sake of their wives.Studies show a dramatic rise in self-reported loneliness among the young.All of our technological connectivity has not made us feel more connected.If you are disconnected from a source of life, your "oxygen tank," then you will attempt to suck life out of someone else.
Ben earned his master’s degree in historical theology from Dallas Theological Seminary.They were to be scuba buddies — able to function independently, both had their scuba masks and oxygen tanks, but paired up to enjoy the adventure together and to provide support should something go wrong. But as soon as he realized he could not breathe, all of that went out the window.As long as they both had their scuba tanks on, air flowing, they were a real source of life for each other — enjoying the wonders of the ocean together. He quickly grabbed her by the shoulders, shaking her and trying to yell.You will, in a moment, become a sucker of life rather than a giver of life. Nor can we offer them unconditional love on the days they are struggling, because they are our source!If it feels like I am painting this in too dark of colors, let me show it to you in the "innocent" way I discovered it in me.
But where there is scarcity, desperation will set in.